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Survivor Resource Directory

Organizations that understand
what you have been through.

This directory brings together crisis lines, therapist finders, financial recovery programs, legal resources, and peer support communities. Every organization listed here works specifically with survivors of abuse. None of them require you to have left, to have a police report, or to be in immediate danger. New to understanding what you've experienced? Start with our education hub.

Crisis Lines — Available Now

National DV Hotline

1-800-799-7233

Call or text — 24 hours, 7 days

Crisis Text Line

Text HOME to 741741

Free, confidential text support

RAINN Hotline

1-800-656-4673

Sexual assault support, 24/7

Survivor Resource Directory

Every organization below has been selected for relevance to survivors of emotional, psychological, and financial abuse. This is not an exhaustive list, and inclusion does not constitute a personal endorsement.

Crisis Line

National Domestic Violence Hotline

The largest domestic violence resource in the US. Provides 24/7 crisis support, safety planning, and referrals to local programs. Accessible by call, text, or live chat. Serves people at all stages, including those still in a relationship.

Crisis Line

Crisis Text Line

Free, confidential crisis support via text message. Available 24/7 across the US, Canada, UK, and Ireland. Useful when calling is not safe or possible. Connects you with a trained crisis counselor within minutes.

Crisis Line

RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline

Connects callers with local sexual assault service providers. Staffed by trained volunteers who can provide confidential support and referrals. Online chat also available through their website for additional privacy.

Therapy Finder

Psychology Today Therapist Directory

The most widely used therapist directory in the US. Filter by specialty (trauma, domestic violence, coercive control), insurance, location, and cost. Profiles include therapist bios, approaches, and fees so you can find the right match before reaching out.

Therapy Finder

Open Path Collective

A network of therapists offering reduced-rate sessions ($30 to $80) for individuals and families in financial need. Particularly useful for survivors whose access to funds has been limited by financial abuse. One-time membership fee required.

Therapy & Training

EMDR International Association

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is one of the most evidence-based approaches for processing abuse-related trauma. This directory helps locate EMDR-trained therapists and explains what to expect from the treatment.

Financial Recovery

Allstate Foundation Purple Purse

A dedicated financial empowerment program for domestic violence survivors. Provides educational tools, financial safety planning guides, and connections to local programs offering economic assistance. One of the few programs that addresses financial abuse directly by name.

Financial Recovery

National Network to End Domestic Violence

NNEDV's Safety Net program specifically addresses technology-enabled financial and surveillance abuse. Provides resources on rebuilding credit, accessing emergency funds, and understanding economic rights after leaving an abusive relationship.

Financial Recovery

Sharpen (Formerly NFCC)

The National Foundation for Credit Counseling connects survivors with nonprofit financial counselors who specialize in helping people recover from debt, damaged credit, and financial hardship caused by a partner's control or sabotage.

Legal Help

WomensLaw.org

Plain-language legal information on protective orders, custody, divorce, and housing rights for abuse survivors. Covers all 50 states. Also provides an email hotline for legal questions and a state-by-state database of local legal resources.

Legal Help

Law Help Interactive

A guided tool for creating legal documents without an attorney, including protective orders and domestic violence-related filings. Available in multiple languages with state-specific forms and step-by-step instructions.

Legal Help

Legal Services Corporation

The largest provider of civil legal aid in the US. Funds local legal services organizations that assist low-income individuals with domestic violence cases, housing, and family law matters. Use their locator to find a program near you.

Peer Support

Loveisrespect

A resource specifically for young people ages 13 to 26 experiencing dating abuse. Offers 24/7 peer advocacy via call, text, or chat. The website also provides tools for identifying unhealthy relationship dynamics in a direct, age-appropriate way.

Peer Support

After Silence

An online peer support community for survivors of sexual assault, rape, and sexual abuse. Moderated message boards provide a space to share experiences and connect with others who understand. No registration required to read.

Peer Support

DailyStrength Abuse Support Groups

Online support groups for survivors of emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse, and domestic violence. Peer-moderated communities organized by experience type. A useful supplement to professional care, particularly for those who are geographically isolated.

Children & Families

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline

Available to children, parents, and concerned parties dealing with child abuse and neglect, including emotional abuse. Professional crisis counselors provide intervention and referrals. Also accessible via mobile app for additional privacy.

Children & Families

National Parent Helpline

Emotional support and resources for parents under stress, including those navigating abusive relationships. Advocates can connect parents with local family services, parenting programs, and domestic violence resources.

Online Safety

Safety Net (NNEDV)

The leading resource on technology safety for abuse survivors. Covers location tracking, spyware, account security, and safe device use. Particularly relevant for survivors whose communications and movements have been monitored digitally. Read more about coercive control tactics in our education hub.

Online Safety

StaySafe.org

Practical guides for staying safe online during and after an abusive relationship. Topics include securing accounts, disabling location sharing, creating new email addresses safely, and protecting children's digital privacy.

What Reaching Out Actually Looks Like

Many people hesitate to contact these organizations because they do not know what to expect. Here is a clear picture of how most of these interactions work. If you are an ally looking to help someone else reach out, see our guide for allies.

01

You control how much you share

You do not have to tell anyone your full name, your address, or any detail you are not comfortable sharing. These organizations are trained to help with whatever information you choose to give.

02

No one will pressure you to leave

Reputable organizations work with survivors wherever they are in their decision-making. Calling a hotline does not commit you to any course of action. The conversation goes at your pace.

03

You do not need physical evidence

Non-physical abuse does not leave marks that can be documented, and none of these organizations require proof. Describing a pattern of behavior is enough to access information and support.

Supporting Someone

Trying to help
someone you care about?

The resource directory for allies covers how to approach conversations about abuse, what to say and avoid saying, and organizations that provide guidance for friends, family members, and colleagues of survivors.

Browsing Safely

If someone else has access to your device or monitors your activity, there are steps you can take to browse more privately.

On Your Browser

  • Open an incognito or private window before visiting this site. Most browsers support this via Ctrl+Shift+N (Windows) or Cmd+Shift+N (Mac).
  • After browsing, clear your history under Settings or by pressing Ctrl+Shift+Delete.
  • If possible, use a device the other person does not have access to, such as one at a library or a trusted friend's home.
  • Avoid saving passwords or bookmarks related to resources on a shared device.

On Your Phone

  • Check whether location sharing is enabled in your phone's settings and with any apps your partner may have access to.
  • Be aware that call and text records may appear on a shared phone bill. Text-based services like Crisis Text Line may be an option if calls feel risky.
  • Consider whether the other person has cloud backup or "Find My" access to your device.
  • The Safety Net program (listed above) provides detailed, platform-specific guidance on digital privacy.

Questions About Using These Resources

No. Every organization listed here works with people experiencing emotional, psychological, and financial abuse, including people who have never experienced physical violence. You do not need to be in crisis to reach out. Many people contact these organizations simply to better understand what they are experiencing.

These organizations are not designed to pressure anyone into a particular decision. Crisis lines, in particular, are skilled at meeting people wherever they are. Many callers are still in a relationship and simply want information or someone to talk to. Accessing resources does not obligate you to take any action. Our article on emotional abuse can also help you understand what you are experiencing.

When searching Psychology Today or contacting a therapist, look for specialties including trauma, coercive control, narcissistic abuse, complex PTSD, or domestic violence. Asking directly whether a therapist has experience with emotional or psychological abuse (as distinct from physical violence) is a reasonable and appropriate question.

Most crisis hotlines operate with strong confidentiality practices, though specific policies vary by organization and jurisdiction. Mandatory reporting laws may apply in cases involving minors. Reviewing the privacy policy of a specific organization before calling, or asking directly at the start of the call, is always a reasonable step.

Open Path Collective offers sessions starting at $30. Community mental health centers often provide sliding-scale fees. Some domestic violence organizations offer free counseling directly or can refer to low-cost options. University training clinics also often provide reduced-rate therapy supervised by licensed professionals.